I'm Just Saying

Real talk.. men who take issue with feminism because now it’s hard to find a stay at home wifey .. most of them are not in a position to provide me the life that I am working toward giving myself. Now, I was never looking for a breadwinner in the first place, more of a teammate, but don’t fault me for having ambition. I’m not sorry that feminism has given me an alternative to dependence and barely getting by. Consequently, men who make Actual good money don’t struggle to find a wife who wants to stay at home. If you find yourself in a position that you don’t make enough bread to be a substantial breadwinner then blame opportunist capitalism for raising cost of living, not feminism. Then there are the traditionalist men whining about the evils of materialistic women, which always makes me laugh because “traditionally “ financial stability and prosperity was a part of selecting your spouse. So Guy wants a Wife who will fulfill a home and hearth role, but Guy also wants her to not have those equivalent, traditional expectations of him. Seems a bit hypocritical.

As for the men who want a home and hearth woman ( someone to primarily cook, clean, take care of the children etc. ) and still expect her to work.. What a joke.. this is coming from someone who likes cooking, and has a generally nurturing personality - if we’re both working the same amount of hours I am not taking on a second job when I get home as everyone’s maid/personal chef/primary caregiver etc while my husband gets to relax cuz in his mind, the workday is over. Eff that..