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Jennifail · 31-35, F
Thanks for all the replies, I really appreciate it. I'm glad that people understand where I am coming from and don't see it as attention seeking. I am far from a selfish person, I always put other peoples needs before my own and I am always avoiding confrontation because I would rather be unhappy than seeing someone I care about be hurt because I have told them how I feel. I know this is a very unhealthy way to live...

daydeeo · 61-69, M
You are valuable. He needs to get his priorities straight.
You MUST talk with him. I know that will be difficult, but your relationship is at stake. In fact, the status quo is that you have no relationship.
He needs a serious wake up call.
If you really are of that little importance to him, you're better off alone until you find the person who will recognize and value your true worth.
Good luck. 💪
Montanaman · M
@daydeeo best answer!👍
Mguinm · 51-55, F
@daydeeo I agree with everything you said.
ninjavu · 51-55, M
If he does this with others too then it's not something *you* should take personally, but it is a sickness of our modern times, thanks to the Zuck that sucks.

Simple solution that isn't simple to execute: Find someone better. Good luck. 🤗
wyolatex · 41-45, M
Funny, (or not), but this sounds like my wife’s obsession with her phone.
wyolatex · 41-45, M
@Jennifail Yes, and the relationship suffers because of it. I think it’s shows where the priorities actually are.
Jennifail · 31-35, F
@wyolatex it certainly does... it hurts not to be the main priority.
wyolatex · 41-45, M
@Jennifail I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing this. It is a struggle and it sounds like your guy may not be the most mature as it seems like he is escaping to not deal with issues in your relationship. I am similar and feel like I am not being heard when I try and voice my side. Good luck to you!
Pseudonym · 26-30, M
Sounds to me like he's either bored or depressed. It's a form of escapism probably.

 
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