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I Dont Make Friends Easy

I have been doing a lot of reading about relationships. Friendships. Self esteem confidence .how it is written makes it sound easy really easy but i am still finding it difficult especially with friendship and relationship sides and afew other issues i have sort of like because of years of being paranoid and stressing about things i have a hard time now of knowing and reading others body language like what I think and was is real like i might think of no this person does not like talking to me or like no i ain't good enough for this person i should not talk to them or things like that person works for a living and dresses really good i don't i am not good enough to talk to that person i have been focusing a bit more clearer and thinking that bit more positive just that I am confused and torn between what impressions i am getting and what is actually real if that makes sense struggling with that part and starting conversations i can say hi and talk if I know what to say it's just still a bit i am still not quite there i have not given up still fighting my way there just slightly still a bit struggling .
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Hmm a lot of us are like that.. more than you can imagine.. but thing is these are OUR thoughts.. and we have to try to ignore them.. hear them yes.. but force yourself to keep trying...
A story.. i struggle to.. I've come a loooong way but perhaps will always feel that i am not as good as others, not as funny, not as interesting.. that I am not liked.. Sooo the other day.. we had a ceremony for students who graduated.. and... and... at the end some of the students gave me flowers.. and said they would miss me.. I was soooo surprised.. shocked.. and I thought.. yea see... even tho I cannot shake past insecurities and damage other people cant see that.. they just see me... so i have to try even harder to ignore that little voice that says you arent good enough.. and I have to keep trying.. to be friendly and to talk to people and get to know them..
Hope this helps a little to know I do understand and have been there.
Peace777 · 51-55, F
I understand

 
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