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I Hate My Parents

Me and my boyfriend went out Saturday to get a pregnancy test I'm not pregnant by the way. I took another pregnancy test today I was wearing my dads jacket and accidentally forgot I left the wrapper in his pocket 🤦🏾‍♀️ Both my parents questioned me my mom said keep it up my baby will be on welfare my mom laughed at me while my dad sounded disappointed 😔 they didn't believe me when I said I wasn't pregnant they won't let me go to my friends house/ see my boyfriend anymore they said when I turn 18 they're gonna kick me out 😔All I want to do is spend time with him why're they treating me like this like I'm literally almost 18

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WildHeart · 41-45, F

As a parent myself I fully understand, however I also recall being a teenager at one stage. What would you have done had the test came out positive? At this age would you be ready to become a parent? Your parents reacted that way because they love you, it may not seem that way right now but believe me when you're sitting pregnant with no way out, you will fully understand. Word of advise if you're persistent on having sex please be safe.

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

But I would be ready to become a parent and he's ready too he told me if I were to get pregnant he'll help and be there for me😔 I'm miserable here my mom is verbally abusive my dad likes to beat on me I just want to spend time with my boyfriend and be happy he's the only thing that gets me through the bullshit I deal with everyday

WildHeart · 41-45, F

@BlackAphrodite: So do you have any plans to further your education? Being a mother is not easy sweetie. His young, he would just about anything. I am glad you find comfort in him, but please don't make a baby to escape from your parents.

rainydaysandmondays · 61-69, F

@BlackAphrodite: if you are miserable, getting pregnant is not a way out! Education is, bettering yourself is. I know you think you are the only one in a bad situation, but believe me, many people have had it as bad or worse than you. If you want a better life, make one for yourself. And it's OK to make one with your BF, just make sure you take care of you, get an education, or learn a trade so that if one day you are the sole provider for your future children, you can provide them with a home. They don't need some mom who is working dead end, minimum wage jobs or is on welfare, all stressed out. The odds are that if you do have a child before you are financially and emotionally ready, in 15 years, your kid will be the one posting the same stuff you are.

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@WiseGirl: ofcourse I have plans to further my education