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I Hate My Parents

Well I dont hate them, but damn my mom is so sensitive she gets upset over the dumbest things and takes everything too seriously. I mean like damn chill.
SoFine · 46-50, F
In life the hard relationships are family, this is the place we practice to forgive.

Your mum gets triggered, we all get triggered. That is "We are never upset for the reason we think we are" this will be for her, some reminder of an old hurt she still gets hurt about, you then appear as the target of her rage. Then if she is in early stage of menopause, or going through, then her hormones are ruling her.

Try not to react as this will escalate, it is very hard to hold back, not to take her upset as personal.

Mother/daughter relationships are hard. How her mother treated her, will play on you, if she grew up in dysfunctional family, she knows no different. Then you can learn from this, build up your own self worth and self love.

Give her a hug, every now and then, this bond to hug, needs no words,just support and recognition.
Aidan · 26-30
[@105402,SoFine] Yes I agree but shes still so sensitive and yells at me out of nowhere. She's no longer going through menopause I believe. But No excuses.
BatFasterly · 56-60, M
You hate your parents, well you don't hate them? Either you hate them or you don't. Make up your mind.
BatFasterly · 56-60, M
[@1021,NarutoUzumaki] How dare you speak to me like that? There is no rule that says it had to be posted in a group, is there? You could have posted it as a question in the family and parenting category, couldn't you? Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot. That's too much like rocket science, isn't it?
Aidan · 26-30
[@653895,BatFasterly] Be gone foul beast!!
BatFasterly · 56-60, M
[@1021,NarutoUzumaki] Stop talking to yourself.

 
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