I'm being mean and I don't like it. It's not helping me or anyone. But eventually you can only put up with so much. And I've ignored it for so long. And I just cant.
If you let yourself be a doormat, the world will walk all over you.
It's always interesting to me to see the "nice" person stand up for themselves; all of the sudden it stops being "the nice girl" to "that bitch", because they will no longer allow everyone else to shit on their head and smile about it.