I Am A Caregiver To My Spouse

When you first meet someone they seem to be fine. My husband n I met later in life. He appeared to get around well..worked hard..very skilled and talented etc.
The unfortunate thing is he had developed arthritis badly. The pain medications led to other issues. I feel sorry for him..for he appears to be NOT the man he was...yes he drives me nuts!! On purpose at times too.
We had st the beginning decent money coming in...back n forth..now we get by on my job n his SS..which doesn't pay much..
Being the caregiver n going through better or worse rich or poor sickness n health. Etc can be very trying on anyone...
Ok I started... Now let's here from others!!