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I Feel Like I Don't Live Up to Expectations

I often wonder if people in here, and forums in general, realize that behind these silly names and avatar pics there are real persons. I am a little annoyed by people's expectations lately, especially people who PM you. I wish everyone would understand that we are humans behind the screens, we have complex personalities and feelings, just cause you read some stupid or funny comment i wrote doesn't mean you can PM me and I'll be in the mood to entertain you hours or days later, just cause I (accidentally) wrote something that seems smart doesn't mean I am feeling like a deep and meaningful conversation at another time when I just want to joke around, just cause you catch me in a flirty or joking mood doesn't mean i am suddenly dumber or that I can't handle deeper themes it just means i'm not in the mood then. Stop having all kind of weird expectations of me (and generally anyone you haven't met) and you might have less disappointments, a better time and the opportunity of meeting more people without getting butthurt mad.
And if you're unable to understand that and want a single faceted caricature of a person then don't blame me for pissing on your parades. I meant raining of course. Yellow rain.
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SW-User
I'll get my umbrella.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
I don't rain on your parade ...yet :)
SW-User
@kayoshin: Yet.
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SW-User
@RisingPhoenix I thought it was honest.
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kayoshin · 41-45, M
Yes you can du that but that is in my opinion the coward's way out. Shielding yourself from the world instead of doing something about the things that you think are wrong.
You also seem to think I am whining, when I am not at all, it's nit a complaint It's a warning to people that might waste their time and find out I can be a nasty asshole if I'm caught at the wrong moment. It's also a reminder to those who think this is a single player game. If you believe anyone who has something to say that could change the way things are even in the least is "needing a diaper change" then that is a "you" problem. Perhaps you should isolate yourself from the world instead?
On a side note: How did you find an old post like this anyway were you stalking me or perhaps you were stalking the one who commented and replied to her in a weird internet jealousy grab? I just can't imagine someone with your attitude searching actively for dead old whiny baby posts. :))
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kayoshin · 41-45, M
Are you delusional? Show me where I said that I don't want old posts replied?
I just pointed out the only logical way you could jave found the post, which by the way you didn't deny but tried to digress and divert attention from yourself with even more attacks.
If you are an adult I am sorry for you if your best debating strategy is strawmen and petty insults.
Again I ask you where did I admit that I want to whine? The part where I said I want to WARN people about what consequences follow? How is that whining? If I tell a guy to stop bothering me or I'll punch him is that a warning or whining?
Anyway feel free to showcase your inane logic as much as you wish I'm not gonna block you. I believe everyone is free to make a fool of himself in public.
Have fun.
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kayoshin · 41-45, M
You are simply put stupid. If you would have read the post like any person with 2 neurons you would have realized It's not about annoying people that you block It's about people's expectations that you can't. Guess on first contact, but you lack the capability to read a text head to tail and comprehend it. Go on making your judge mental calls without even knowing what you talk about you immature ass. This is about where I'm done with you so feel free to have the last word, whatever that idiocy might be I'm not interested.
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