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Fashion vs Personal Preference

My hair is my personal statement of how I feel as a woman.
It is long. Tangles removes the length is to my waist.
I have had my hair short more than it has been long. Yet now is where I want it to be.
My B.F. wants me to cut it. He wants it to be more stylish and he feels shorter would be more fashionable.
I love my hair. It's about the only feature about me that I like.
There have been no arguments on this but he continues to try and have me cut it all off.
I want to know your opinion. Ladies or Guys would you handle this issue? That your partner pressures you to change something about you.
I know I have asked this before, but I hadn't a response that I can recall that I could relate to. So consider something about yourself that you love, ONE thing others try to change that you want to keep as your own! How would you handle this situation.

I only meant to say that for a woman, most of us feel our hair is our CROWN. The one thing we can control.
lipstickguy · 61-69, M Best Comment
be true to your self, it's okay for him to have an opinion suggesting he thinks you would look good with shorter hair, but when you say you like it the way it is....end of discussion. as your bf she should know you are beautiful always.

Magnolia · 31-35, F
Your hair has nothing to do with him. You have to do what you want with your own body, don't let some man tell you what to do with your body- ever!
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
@Magnolia: I thank you. I have the RIGHT to be me. The hair is mine and my decision.
Hamidmeh · 36-40, M
If u r love with heart and soul to him please don't cut....If he love u with heart so please don't waste a time ....now everything ask from ur heart ..Thanks
TheProphet · M
Keep your hair long. Mines been to my waist for 3 decades and I have no plans on cutting it ever, other than an inch or so every year.
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
30 years is a long while. thank you
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Carla1951 · 70-79, F
@gingershuman: I hear that! now regretting he moved in with me.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
Your hair, your decision! My vibe tells me you should keep it long.
Carla1951 · 70-79, F
@nudewalker: thankyou as I said, most of us women wear our hair as our crown. This is mine.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@Carla1951: Plus I had an ex-wife who always wanted me to change. Hair style, clothing choices even what sports teams I supported. Won't go there again.
goodguy007 · 41-45, M
Wow! Bet the long hair looks pretty on you. Hope you keep it the way you like :)
zorroo · 56-60, M
don't cut it.

 
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