What is with her

If it’s a problem for you, just tell her not to wear them or throw them away. You’re the parent after all. 🤷‍♀️

You are her mother. She is 13. You have control over what she wears. Yes, you do. Get rid of the old clothes. Why is she wearing a G-string at 13, anyway? You have control over that, too. Yes, you do. You are her mother.

times doesn't need an apostrophe

holy should be holey

I seen should be I saw

tear should be tore - past tense

Remember: You are a parent

Start first by explaining what her clothing says about her and what she is wearing is unacceotable .. .. .. let her know what she should be wearing and how that better represents who she realy is .. ..

If that does not work tell her she is not allowed to dress like that and what the consequences will be if she continues .. .. then follow through with the consequences .. .. ..

One of the consequences my daughter suffered was jean shooping wuth Dad .. .. i did not hesitate to reject any that did not fit appropriately .. .. that may have been worse then the spankings .. ..

Good luck, they eventually come around .. ..

...Why is this a problem for you? I mean, aside from the possible impression that tattered clothing can engender regarding your family's economic status, it doesn't sound like anyone's getting hurt here.

then step up and be her mother, she will get away with what she can. crying here won't do anything if you care show her

Next time she puts them in the laundry, throw them away.

A 13 year old is walking around with trousers so ripped their knickers show? Jesus wept.

how old were you when she was born ?