I Like Married Men

but how do you know his wife can't?
you may just be a toy to him.

@agreatday...Because he told her so. It's not like married men go around lying, right?

You're crossing boundaries that may be considered absolutely sacred to the spouse of these men. It may be enough to throw them over the edge to do such a thing. There are some men who will lie and say things to other women to make them think that their wife isn't doing things to satisfy them, but in reality they are just players and want to play and don't consider their spouse's feelings if she ever found out.

Ruby: if he's cheating on his wife, then he's pretty accustomed to lying. For all you know, he's having the time of his life, and you become part of the lie.

Not all men lie, and based on my own experience, more are true, and passionate, about their partners than not.

@cherokeepatti: I completely agree. I've read more than one clinical study that concluded that sexual prowess, or even variety, is not why people cheat (although some may).

Women having affairs with men, often think that they're giving the guy something he's not getting at home. This was a common topic of discussion on the old EP. Eventually, they figure out this is not the case.

You're right, players are players.

I worked with a young woman who was divorced and loved to play around with married men. She thought she was smart to do that. She didn't keep her job past her 6 month probation (missed too many days) and she was murdered a few years later. By the wife of a man she was having an affair with.

@LUCY. no, i'm sure they don't. lol.

I know quite a few girls who get great orgasms pleasing married men. Sometimes the iife knows, sometimes they do not!
men need sex almost as much as do most women. Great you help out!

Yikes, I will try to change this habit. Believe me ... I'm scared. I mostly like to write about it... I was only with 2 married men in my life. It's rather a fantasy.

Wow, that's scary! This always puzzles me! They should go after the guy not the woman :(

This made my eyes pop out...phew..it's getting hot in here..care to expand,what you do!?

I always made sure my wife knew everything I was doing. She had lovers also. Hat way there was no thrill from deceit, nor was there any problems caused by deceit.
Our girls and theirs also have countless lovers, actually many female ones also. Again the husbands where married also know everything that happens.
We have found this openness and honesty really has enhanced our marriages.

Lucy! Lol Good point! Ha ha :)

I'm glad you feel that way...;)

I disagree that he's lying because if she really gave him what he wanted he wouldn't wonder off, after all woman become mad at the other woman but the guy is the one who initiates the adultery.. Not always but in my case!

Unintended consequences of that kind of lifestyle....and she had a young son she was raising, that was really the saddest thing about it.

And how often do you see that married guy

It is an exciting thing for sure ... :-)