It can be. What you have to do is distract and disconnect yourself from negative people and things. Don't entertain them. Don't kiss up to them. Don't pet or cuddle them up. Just stay in your space and take care of you. Ok. 馃檪
@curiosi oh exactly. There was another job I'd applied to that I really wanted. That place shut down like a year or so later. Would have been out of a job had I gotten hired
