@SW-User I didnt think to at the time. Honestly its just a birthday so I'm not super invested. All I said was "ok thanks." Its like, yeah its a dick move on her part but is it really worth me calling her up and starting a whole conversation about it? She'd find some way to get offended that I'm offended by the offensive thing she said, like the time she said the civil war wasn't about slavery, and when I corrected her with facts on my side, this woman found a way to flip it back on me like I'm the one being an ass. Tell me how that works lol
Anyway yeah it's not worth it. At the end of the day its free food.