I Think We All Have a Choice
If you really want to find a reason to not change things, then you'll always find it. You'll always find a counter to anything that anyone suggests. But the truth is that you feel like you don't have a choice - like you have to stay. But underneath that feeling is a choice - to stay, and endure the hardships that come with staying. Or to leave, and endure the hardships that that come with leaving. It's a choice, not something that's been forced on you - and until you recognize that, you'll keep yourself comfortably powerless.