I Am Strict
My son Zak will not be coming online for a while as he needs to spend time being with his boyfriend and understanding of a relationship. I feel this is want he needs.
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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
YOU ARE HIS MOM.. And you should be guiding him in his relationships.
You are doing a great job..
YOU know how it is best to punish him in ways that will cause him to reflect on his choices..
Just remember that he may not choose things the way that YOU want him to..
As a young adult, my relationship choices/lifestyle did not agree with my parents idea of what was best for me.. But I had to learn how to explain my feelings and desires to them.. It took a lot of spankings and tears and corner time over a few years...
You are in for a LONG HAUL..
Hang in there and do not get discouraged.. Keep your communications open with him and force him to talk with you if he shuts down..
You are doing a great job..
YOU know how it is best to punish him in ways that will cause him to reflect on his choices..
Just remember that he may not choose things the way that YOU want him to..
As a young adult, my relationship choices/lifestyle did not agree with my parents idea of what was best for me.. But I had to learn how to explain my feelings and desires to them.. It took a lot of spankings and tears and corner time over a few years...
You are in for a LONG HAUL..
Hang in there and do not get discouraged.. Keep your communications open with him and force him to talk with you if he shuts down..