I Am Not The Other Woman

The other woman does not move on. She sits in wait because she forced nc. She's sitting behind the scenes either lacking her wounds or giving it a little time before she reaches out to him again.

And of course he has a lot to lose, that's the reason why he keeps the affair a secret. Making promises that he will fix it in time and giving the other woman false hope.

@Solostance: yes, she lives in her head for 5 years reviewing the what ifs and waiting for him to call someday. Delusional.

@Solostance: maybe he should confess it to his wife first!

@Quietrumble, when I was online dating I met somebody online, who had 'just started a relationship' with a guy otherwise we had so much in common we'd have had at least a date.
Fast forward 3 months and there she is again, god knows why she was online, she hates men now but at least she told me why. This guy had been stuffing her on and off for the 3 months until his wife found out. Then his wife insisted he gave her the other woman's phone number which he did(coward), at which point she received a number of derogatory and threatening calls. Ever heard the phrase, 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned,'?
Meanwhile the husband carried on as if nothing had happened.

I read today that a mm has been involved with another woman for four years. They had 1 dday and he cut ties. She eventually wormed her way back to him and like the snake he is, he picked up the dirt. Both have been secretly communicating for years. The affair is LD and she comes to visit him several times a year. But what she doesn't know is the wife knows! She found the secret app on his phone and has downloaded all the messages. The wife is currently waiting to expose it all via the Internet. I cannot wait. I wish that I could be the fly on the wall when he sees what she has done. Made a fool out of her but she's determined to make damn sure the secret is revealed. He perpetrates as a man of integrity and one who has his family's best interest at heart. Well after she exposes it he cantold hide behind that facade anymore! lmaooooooooooooo

@GeniUs: I think if you screw around that u have to be prepared to deal with what happens afterward. That man and woman got what they both deserved. However the wife was stupid...I would have dumped his dirty underwear at her house. Lol

Yeah I agree. But when my first wife played away, I must admit after about 6 months without her I was thinking about taking her back :o thankfully I never did.

@Solostance: so is this your story?

There are a lot of apps to track people. I've known it to be used on people before.

@GeniUs: no relationship is the same again though. It was good u moved on!

@GeniUs: good choice

@Quietrumble: No not me. Hell I can't hold water let alone something like exposing an affair. I am married but haven't experienced him cheating on me. I wouldn't have the patience to catch him cheating.

@Solostance: lmao...I don't go digging either but if he did I would happily give him the best suitcases to move out with cause that's all he'd be taking with him. And our mattress.

"And our mattress."

😆You savage!

@GeniUs: I'm nice right??? Lololol