Days like this.
I have days where I resent being born Male. Today is one of those days. I feel frustrated.
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hartfire · 61-69
Do you feel that you are a woman on the inside, or do you simply dislike being male?
Is there anything in particular that makes one day feel different to the others? If so, what triggers the feeling?
Is there anything in particular that makes one day feel different to the others? If so, what triggers the feeling?
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hartfire · 61-69
@deadblueroses Oh gosh, that must be awful!
There are some things about my body that I don't like, but I try to accept them as they are. I recognise that it's just aesthetic judgements, which are conditioned thinking based on stereotypes. In reality, everything is healthy and functions well, so I'm grateful for that, and do my best to maintain it that way.
What is it about being male that is repugnant? It can't be just appearances because men can be beautiful or handsome. Do you have a negative perception of what men are?
Or do you think you might be at the being of a journey towards becoming a woman? If so, that's a different matter, and there are a few trans people here who would accept you all through it. I'm a "norm" but I believe everyone should have the right to become what they wish to be. I would encourage you to explore your feelings in as much depth as possible.
There are some things about my body that I don't like, but I try to accept them as they are. I recognise that it's just aesthetic judgements, which are conditioned thinking based on stereotypes. In reality, everything is healthy and functions well, so I'm grateful for that, and do my best to maintain it that way.
What is it about being male that is repugnant? It can't be just appearances because men can be beautiful or handsome. Do you have a negative perception of what men are?
Or do you think you might be at the being of a journey towards becoming a woman? If so, that's a different matter, and there are a few trans people here who would accept you all through it. I'm a "norm" but I believe everyone should have the right to become what they wish to be. I would encourage you to explore your feelings in as much depth as possible.