Do you miss them ? Or do you miss the way they made you feel? Or both or is it an illusion of our own mind ? [I Dont Like Small Talk]

@Notanymore True ..but there are times it haunts me ..I have good days I have bad days ..this is Marathon not a sprint ..

@SW-User I'm really sorry for the things that weigh on your heart. There isn't words or actions that can replace the feeling of loss. I believe in you, and I'm here if you need anything.

@Notanymore I do appreciate that . As I am here for you if you want or need to talk .

@Beatbox34 sometimes we tend to project our wants and needs onto others but that person really isn't what we think we want them to be

@SW-User This is partially true in my case. However, I am a guy who thinks 5 steps ahead. I knew it wouldn't work out. She said we'd make it work and that's how I ended up being a fool.

Little did the younger me know that words mean nothing. I realised with time that people don't take words seriously as I do. At the end she did make me feel all of it was an illusion and I got depressed for 2 years over that.

@Beatbox34 sometimes we learn the hard way..but it's just another lesson in life

@JustEd I understand completely

@SW-User I can relate

@Magenta makes sense

@SW-User I'm sorry for your loss

@SW-User Thank you.

@LunarOrbit fair enough

@Sweetpoison Self preservation is important for survival

@SW-User i just got to a point where i understood it’s not worth it

@Sweetpoison I understand that .
I go back and forth with that thought process

@melissa001 we have to find a way th o make ourselves feel that way

@SW-User if you find a way, let me know.

@melissa001 I am trying

@SW-User yes the are and valid

@MasterofNone I get that

@wackidywack I'm sorry

@Keepitsimple understood