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I Have a Toxic Family

Ugh,

Sorry for the vent in advanced I'm not always grumpy promise! My grandfather passed away a few days ago so as you'd expect we're all devastated my dad even more so. Yet my mother is being such an. Ass towards him. If I go against her it's wrong but if I go against my dad who I love to pieces is wrong. I'm done with the moaning and bitching honestly. I just wish I could afford to move out and away from it all. I'm currently saving. It's just one of those issues where you can't win with anyone. It's also really strange. I just want my grandad back and the arguments to stop 馃檨
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SW-User
running away from family should not be an option stand there and deal with it make it right as much as you can
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User I've tried it's only made it worse. I tend to just walk away from them soon as they start bitching/arguing. It's not the way to form a family unit.
SW-User
@SilentangelIts not about you tried or not its about to what extent you can go to keep family together
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User o just fear my family is too far gone to be saved.
SW-User
@Silentangel I don't want to sound like motivational speaker haha but there is always hope and there is no limits
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User yeah, it's just we used to be close a few years ago. No idea why we've come apart like this at all. I just find the she thing tiresome and trivial.
SW-User
Most of the time its lack of communication @Silentangel
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User yeah it's weird in all honesty. Like we don't talk or anything. Their more interested in their gadgets and such
SW-User
Maybe thats the reason @Silentangel
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User ha good luck trying to get them to go and get off the gadgets 馃槀
SW-User
hahah yup you would have to find an alternative @Silentangel
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User yeah, I spend most evenings doing something creative off screen :)
SW-User
Creative like 馃槸@Silentangel
Silentangel26-30, F
@SW-User yeah I did share some on here :) I don't always vent it's just sometimes the tai chi doesn't always help
SW-User
I know, some days. Somedays you want to talk somedays you want keep quite somedays you want to be alone and the other day you want to be social and the list goes on and on... Your drawing is pretty, Keep doing it . thanks for sharing@Silentangel