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I Know I'm Being Stupid But Yes I Get Jealous Sometimes

I find it funny that I feel so jealous everytime I would see my friend happy and laughing with the others simply because she's my favorite friend. We had an argument before and I did not not talk to her for days and things become different after that. I still like her though but my jealousy is getting in the way so I treat her coldly and barely speak to her which make things worse. I can't bluntly tell her my feeling since I know she wouldn't care anymore. If only there's a way to stop this feeling. I really hate it.

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Reject · 26-30, M

Jealousy comes from insecurity. You should learn to be happy with yourself if you wish to stop feeling jealous.

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Reject · 26-30, M

@RedWallflower I think if you were truly happy with yourself, then you'd be happy for her being popular. You aren't though. You feel jealous and want to keep her to yourself, or you wish you could be popular too, I'm not sure which. Either way, this means you lack something she has. Something you haven't learned to give yourself. What do you think that could be?

RedWallflower · 26-30, F

@Reject She's popular even before we met. She has lots of friends and I'm perfectly fine with that. Then she befriended me. At first I'm a little hesitant because I don't like having shallow friendship since I have lots already. When we were very closed friends, I'll tell you, I'am ok seeing her with others. I don't like keeping her all by myself before since I couldn't keep up with all of her antics besides I don't want her other friends be jealous of me. I know they were jealous of me, now I'm jealous of them.

Reject · 26-30, M

@RedWallflower Hmm. I'm trying to understand exactly what you're jealous about. You're fine with her being popular and having friends, you also wouldn't want to keep her to yourself. So what makes you feel jealous? 🤔

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