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I Am Crying Right Now

My Best Friend and I fought today and I feel so bad that I can't stop myself from crying. I know that she just wants me to open up to her and tell my problems to her but I can't. I feel that I will be just adding up to her problems so that is why I am keeping it up for myself. I don't want her to worry about me because I know that she also has many problems to think about. But in the end I still hurt her and now she's mad at me. This is the second time I fought with her. She had been my best friend for five years now.

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Mamapolo2016 · F

Good friends don't only need you to listen. They need to know you'll come to them when you need somebody. If it doesn't work both ways it's not really a friendship, it's more of a counselor/patient thing.

Sometimes it helps to tell your worries to somebody who's got their own troubles - it helps you know you're not a hopeless case.

If you're too proud to share your concerns with a good friend, maybe there's something else going on?

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@Mamapolo2016 I have been sharing my concerns with her till recently when I shut myself out from any social activities.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Leafkiss So, you feel too burdened by your problems to spend time with her? That would hurt.

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@Mamapolo2016 She already have other friends to talk to and that is why I think she doesn't need me anymore.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Leafkiss Are you thinking now maybe you were wrong about her not needing you?

I think you were.

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

Yes since she got mad.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Leafkiss So, why don't you tell her what you just told us - that you were afraid you were bothering her and you're sorry and you love her?

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

I've already told her.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Leafkiss She'll get glad again. Just keep telling her you don't know what you'd do without her.

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

Okay. Thank you so much.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Leafkiss You're welcome. See how easy it is?