I wish I can make people fall in love with me They say I'm beautiful, but I can't make them...

BlueVeins · 22-25

I hope you find what you're looking for, dear.

Ingwe · F

I guess for a relationship to last
you have to combine 2 opposites ..that makes for an interesting ride
IMHO
you don't need a perfect person/match
but you both should have a "till the end of time" mindset
after initial raging hormones
you move into a quiet companionship
working together for a better life /future
anything a third person can give your partner
... you can/ that is for sure,
communicate/negotiate terms

not that you asked but 🤷

wishing you
love and happiness

Dshhh · M

Some people say that many years of online life without an equivalent social interaction, has made many people unequipped to deal withReal world relationships.
Love is a lot like happiness, it may be temporary, enjoy what you have when you have it. Our culture has a myth. The myth of the perfect one.Give love freely without expectations of return.

SW-User

Very few people experience entirely smooth seas when it comes to their love life. We do our best and we learn as we go. What you have described is what many people will have experienced. Keep trying, keep learning, you will get there.

in10RjFox · M

First thing one must learn in Loving is to allove .. as in allow love to settle. You loving someone is totally different from making someone love you.

So there is a conflict who you love and the who would love you.

So let or allow someone to love you first.

zane333 · 36-40, M

Someday you'll look back and realize it was best that you didn't have that superpower because you'll be with someone you love you never would've met if had already been with someone else

Disposal · 36-40, M

I'm sorry.
Love is a trifling cow sometimes
You deserve all the love and happiness that comes in the future but for now. Just focus on you

Rambler · M

It’s not something we can make happen, and that can be sad. The other person has to feel it just as much.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Just be you; There is someone seeking what you have!!

in10RjFox · M

Giving too much attention is not too much love. Beauty brings attention but love is how you allow someone to love and how you show your love for the other. Like how your beauty attracts another, you need to find and appreciate such an attraction present in the other. As love is more about involvement and not just attraction.

Uncfred · 61-69, M

You are still young, the right thing will happen, just be patient.
Incidentally, "Sugarpie" was my name for my late wife, and that was said with a love that will go on for as long as I live (and hopefully long after).

Strict4u · 56-60, M

Be yourself you will find the right person

in10RjFox · M

Loving someone is different from taking interest in someone. Many say I am interested in someone or seeing someone, but taking interest is very different.