I Want to Be Loved

Then why is it so hard to let someone?

I've spent so much time around guys who don't care all that much and honestly I think I do it on purpose. If they don't give you much then you don't have so much to lose. Of course it's not a great situation to be in but I guess I was avoiding the heart ache of actually giving my all and losing it.

And here I am on the other side of that, having let go of someone who didn't care (rather easily I might add) and being faced with someone who cares a great deal and wants to be in my life as a force for good.

Wish me luck.

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ABCDEF7 · M

"If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love."

https://similarworlds.com/5944873-I-Believe-Life-Is-a-Life-Long-Lesson/1678668-This-is-your-life-Do-what-you-love-and-do-it-often

Best Wishes. :)

ZenKitzune · F

@ABCDEF7 I wasn't looking for anything tbh, I am kind of a live in the present kind of person.

antonioio · 70-79, M

Life is what you put in to it
Don't be be nice to someone because you like them or love them
Be nice to people because they deserve it or need it

ZenKitzune · F

@antonioio I'm nice to people regardless of hat they can do for me.

antonioio · 70-79, M

Yes be nice to all
But get used

ZenKitzune · F

@antonioio not necessarily, you don't need to be an idiot about it.

CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M

Scrutiny is terrifying.

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ZenKitzune · F

@CheshireCatalyst Now that is romance lol

RandomUniverse · M

@ZenKitzune Maybe he views you as perfect for him, as is, with all flaws now existing or hereafter discovered. Here's an idea - inoculate him by preemptively confessing your flaws to him. I doubt he would care. And he might be willing to share his shortcomings with you. Then you can relax into the relationship.