What to do when your are lost in life?

I have been talking to this girl for about 2-3 months now. We went on 2 dates but we are not sure where we stand. We would like to see each other more during the week but it's been tough due to our schedules. I really like her but feel she is out my league. She is a Lawyer/Artist that lives in Manhattan. I am a designer who lives with family in the Bronx. I just turned 32 today, financially I am not doing so well. I have very little saved up, no car, no license. My job pays a decent amount. Would love to save more but I am also helping my parents with rent. About $500-$600 a month. I started working in my late 20's and have been reckless with money, I know I should of started working earlier. I know young guys in their early 20's who are doing very good, so it appears on social media. I am trying to get my life together and feel she wants someone who is at her level and can support her financially. I want to tell her my situation, but feel she might run. I am actually planning to move from NYC to a city that is much cheaper. NYC is expensive, crowded and overrated. It's a hell hole filled with a$$holes. I will get to keep my current job and plan to get a second job to save more money. I guess right now in my life I am at the crossroads and just not sure what to do. I have spent most my life living for other people that I forgot about myself. I love my parents, they have done the best for me. But in the same breathe they have also held me back by being too religious and protective, trying to control every aspect of my life. I should of moved away from them a long time ago. I would of been in a much better situation.