I don’t understand. Why do some guys like feisty girls?

My best friend is so feisty and sassy and her boyfriend said before they dated he said he likes that in a girl and he likes that about her and a girl that voices her own opinion.

I’m not that girl. People say I’m too passive aggressive, too nice, don’t fight back and always butts in when nobody is talking to me. I always please people. They said I’m so annoying.