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Is it wrong for me to think this

I usually always see male authorities like cops only easy on pretty women. I dont know if im wrong but I see them being hard on the less fortunate women that are ugly. I actually see it alot. Are guys only nice to pretty women?
Is it wrong? No. Not at all. Are guys only nice to pretty women? Some of us.

Some of us haven't realized how valuble even female friends are. I don't mind having lots of them myself because to be frank with you am already a bit of a feminist but also as far as dating is concerned I mean yeah it sucks when she doesn't like you back but guys who don't get it just lack something about them Idk what they just don't get that women are always on guard and have their backs up and having lots of female friends makes you look safer to be around and easier to talk to.

which increases your odds of actually getting a girlfriend/romantic partner/whatever terms you want to use. if it's a numbers game ultimately.

the smart ones are also observing our conduct towards the ones we don't find pretty....

I don't know why men are so oblivious sometimes, Women talk...
Reject · 26-30, M
I think that’s true. Being good looking benefits almost every single social interaction you have.
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
I think you are right, Miss. Pretty women have it clearly easier in this world.
Nobody00 · F
It has always been like that. Goodlooking women AND MEN get away with a lot.
SW-User
That's called, "judging by looks" it's how racism is prevalent
That's an interesting observation. Unfortunately, I do think there's aesthetic-preference profiling. I also think it's both natural (through a natural desire to procreate the species - equating good-looks with health, therefore producing healthy offspring) and acquired means (mostly through advertising - sexualizing people to sell a company's products). People [i]are[/i] attracted to what they would consider to be good-looking people, and are probably kinder to them than they would be to those who are seen as [i]not[/i] as attractive.

So, to answer your question; Yes, I think guys are generally nicer to pretty women. For the same reasons, I think women are nicer to good-looking guys.
SW-User
I hate the term "ugly"in reference to looks - who gets to decide that? *sighs*
Why are they less fortunate based on looks?
They could be smart, kind, generous all things that have nothing to do with how a person looks.
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
I’m sure it happens. But I treat all the women the same.
Some Guys are yes! I am always nicer to the less fortunate ones
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Unless it’s their boss.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Clearly this kind of stereotyping goes on in the world, and it goes both ways honestly. So it’s not “wrong” for you to perceive this. Many women are nicer to men that they find to be attractive as well. So it’s a two way street.
Piper · 61-69, F
No, and no I don't guys are only nice to pretty women. I have no doubt though, that people in general are often treated better and differently based on their
[i]attractiveness[/i].
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I find it easier to be nice to pretty people (or people I find attractive) but i’m not a cop and i’m not necessarily not nice to ugly people.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@missbess200 ] maybe maybe not but the are there to uphold the law fairly no matter of looks or gratification to the officer
FUNBOY · M
I'm fat, and I've noticed that people who are thin tend to be mean to fat people.
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
It happens with some men but certainly not all
Sexual harassment guidelines have limited just how “nice” they’re allowed to be.

 
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