I Am a Sensitive Person

@bighappysmiles - sweetheart, you are still young. it's only going to get worse. and you will run into bigger assholes than the ones on this site. the world is not a nice place. straighten your spine, let it roll off your back and keep it moving. you can do it. you are stronger than you realize.

OMG there's been a shitload of activity on this thread while I wasn't looking. Horacegreenley and faerylight THANX for sticking up for me on here! I really do appreciate that and I'm kinda touched :) Here's why strangeworld is such an ass: This is a posting called 'I Am A Sensitive Person' and he's bashing me for being overly sensitive!I mean does he even get it?
I don't like being this way! I want to be able to let strangeworld and his type roll off my back and it's hard. I try to and I still get upset. And he doesn't give a fuck that him and sludgewhatever got me upset because to them I'm stupid and should be able to take it. And if I can't, too bad. Only the strong are worthy.
I hate life sometimes.

Sludgefeast when i first came on here I had a teddy bear as my avatar. But then I thought it was better to use myself because I have issues with my body image and that's one of the demons I'm trying to exercise. So for good or bad there it is, not that you deserve an explanation because you're a total ass.

StrangeWorld...its not about you. You and sludgefeast are symptoms. The crassness, the lack of civility and juvenile behavior of people trying to dominate discourse. Its tyranny of the minority.

I don't care what you say about me. I can't get offended. I prefer you attack me rather than other people anyway.

And how do you know the poster is "just looking for someone to blame her issues and feelings?" I did look at the beginning of the thread. You and sludgefeast came out swinging from your first post. No one, but you, cares if you were "kidding."

But the stuff you and sludgefeast are peddling does get in the way of a decent conversation. And by that, I don't mean just this thread.

The one thing I do know is that if you and sludgefeast are mocking me, then I'm on the right track.

One of my Pet Peeves is when people try to stifle dissenting opinions. This issue goes far beyond this post. I rarely get into these sort of "Flame Wars", because they aren't productive. I do this once in a while, because ridiculing or shouting down other people because you are not willing to tolerate a viewpoint contrary to your own, is not a principle on which this country was founded (and yes I am talking politics). The tolerant among us should push back against the intolerant.

I don't want to block them. I want to confront them face to face. But of course they wouldn't do that because they're cowards.

It's always interesting to see what people are like in an anonymous setting because that's when you see who they really are.

StrangeWorld - the poster is either genuine or a fake. Either way, why do you care? Frankly, I'd be surprised if anyone put an actual picture of themselves on this site. But the point is, if the poster is a fake, then so what? If you you reveal a "fake" post or account, then what do you gain? That you're smarter than the rest of us who react as if the post is genuine? That you revealed someone is not being truthful on the Internet? That never happens, right?

So you're smarter than the rest of us. Congratulations, you win.

But the poster could be genuine. If so, then what do you gain from trampling another person's feelings?

My point is, responses to postings should be made in the spirit in which the poster intended. If you don't believe the poster, then ignore the post. If you believe the poster, or at least have no reason or evidence to contradict the poster, then either participate constructively or ignore the post.

Anonymously mocking people is pointless. It's an exercise in mental masturbation.

StrangeWorld...part of humanity is recognizing the emotional state of the other person. You might think this is a big joke, but bighappysmiles and other people here may not see it that way. This is not your thread. Someone else made this posting, and having humanity or some emotional intelligence should indicate the spirit in which it was intended. If you want to make jokes, then make your own posting. Not everything is a joke.

I think it brings out the truth in people. I joined this site cuz I thought it might be worthwhile to kinda stand up here and and be real and face myself, the good the bad and everything in between. And of course I get the same kind of shit I get everywhere else. I sometimes wonder if it's me, that there's something wrong with me and it's never going to get any better. For every respectful comment there's another laughing at me or putting me down.

No, let me rephrase that. You're a total fucking ass.

You are beautiful @bighappysmiles

@bighappysmiles - It's not easy being sensitive, and it's harder putting on a tough exterior even though you have to do it.
Remember: 1. People will talk and try to put you down to make up for their own insecurities;
2. You're better than you think.

I wrote ONE post about my chest and read those comments again because because it's a discussion ABOUT BODY IMAGE AND REDUCTION SURGERY!
Your comments suck. You see them as playful but this kind of idiotspeak has been going on around me for years.

Sludgefeast is a troll. I looked at her postings, and she is best described as "weird." StrangeWorld is no better. I suspect that they are damaged people looking to hurt others to make themselves feel better.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. The ones making the remarks are the issue. Either way, the target of the remarks tends to feel bad.

Yeah, big breasts are fetish, but anything thats different is a target.

@bighappysmiles: Don't let sludgefeast or others make you angry. This one or ones aren't worth it. You are still a beautiful and intelligent women! No matter what others say!

You're obviously stronger than you think, because you are able to act like it means less when you're in public. But it's good that you have a sensitive side. :) xx

@Sludgefest yes she has a revealing photo but why is it making you carry on like a maniac?

You see boobs. I see a human being.

Don't let those people control your happiness. Block them. I blocked them. They have nothing to offer here.

Exactly Faerylight. The only two people in the thread that wish to contradict that sentiment and who are supporting each other against the rest of the people in this thread are StrangeWorld and Slugefeast. It's that trolling of other people without any thought to their feelings are what I, and the other people in this thread, object. Really, what's the point in mocking other people and trampling on their feelings?

Sludgefeast should read my response to her regarding Polar Bears. If she thinks that constitutes "burning" me then she is as delusional as she appears. As for Strangeworld, I find it funny that your first thought turns to masturbation. Your psychological projection is very illuminating.

Please keep in mind that I don't insult people until they insult me or others first.

We all have an inner strength. We just have to dig down and find it.

That's true. They are cowards. That's why they pull this shit online.

Just want to see that big happy smile on your face MissQT :-)

OK, so here it is for everybody to see, exactly what I've posted here. I'm telling these guys to go F themselves but later on I'll be dwelling on what they said and I'll believe it's I've brought this on myself and I'll end up crying over it and feeling shitty. So great job guys, be proud. You win. I'm overly sensitive and physically ridiculous.

A big happy smile for you faerylight :)

Good StrangeWorld. You are reaffirming what you already believe. Are you familiar with Confirmation Bias? You won't learn anything if you only reaffirm what you already believe.

@bighappysmiles unfortunately for some people big boobs trigger something where their brains shut down!

It isn't you

Sadly the only way you can avoid it is if you changed your photo :-(

So sludge and strangeworld, are you here to show me that maturity at 31-35 is no different than at age 12? Is this what I can look forward to with guys in the future?

Hope you feel better bighappysmiles. But yeah, I don't like getting in an argument on the internet.

Horace, that Bob Denver icon is very distracting.

The link you put int this thread is innocent. As for you calling me warped, I say Thank You. As I said, if you are mocking or insulting me, I'm doing the right thing.

Well, some of the loveliest people are also the most sensitive 🌹

Luckily you can and will get stronger

Hopefully before you turn 40! Ha ha

@bighappysmiles Other people have your same emotions.If they go off and cry, you don't see it. You may not too sensitive as you believe.

Again, sludgefeast, other than hurling insults, what have you contributed? Do you have any evidence to support your claims?

I can't believe the amount of abuse on this thread. Some people should be very ashamed. But they're not and it's saddening.

@Bighappysmiles: What exactly is it that you are exorcising? I see someone that is very overly defensive about comments that while done so in teasing were not done so with any malice or hatred. You've written several posts about your large chest and these posts in some cases have over 100+ comments with guys talking about how much they like your chest and what they'd like to do to it. You should still be busy attacking those comments rather than getting defensive over a couple playful comments.

@Strangeworld tag teaming to mock a young woman who was talking about her feelings as if you had no care or awareness of her humanity

@bighappysmiles - even though I liked the previous pic I like your current one even more!!

@bighappysmiles - An awesome new pic from yourself! I really like this big, happy smile! ;-)

I see. Since we've all been mocked, that makes it OK to do it to someone else.

Horace give it up dude, lol. You've stormed in here and blown things way out of proportion. If you go back and read the conversation and can't see this girl was just looking for someone to blame her issues and feelings on than I have nothing more to say to you. If that is "trampling human feelings" than you and the few others that think so need to grow some thicker skin.

You're welcome. Let me ask you a question. What do you get out of this?

lol you're warped Horace. Let's go ask this girls father if he'd rather see her take a wisecrack for showing herself off on a social media site or have a discussion about her tits with a man in his 50's like you were doing with another 18 year old girl in the link I shared below. Sorry we interrupted you from doing it with this girl as well.

Wow Faery you need to put your reading glasses on. If our comments were "mocking a young woman's humanity" then you need to visit humanity a little more often. It's okay though. Horace and the 30 other guys twice her age that we're giving her advice on living life with a large chest in the other thread she posted will look out for her. You're taking it all way too seriously lol.

Nonconstructive Horace? Are you just playing ignorant because you know I'm right? You were the one that came into the conversation attacking me...you should have increased the privacy on your replies before doing so. You said the increasing infancy in this culture is sad to you...ironic because from your behavior it seems like you can't keep your hands off it.