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I Dont Like Being Mad At People

I don't. But people always keep giving me reasons to be angry at them.

How so, you may ask? Well basically because I do everybody favors, just cause I like to share and do things for others. But when it comes to doing me a favor, which isn't often at all, they never can comply. Like I don't get it. I have this one cousin of mine whom I always bring out to eat and pay in their 5 every time we go out. I also let him borrow my 3DS since I never use it like a couple months ago. But yet when I asked him if he could do me a small favor that would have only taken 5-10 minutes, his response was "I'm going out to get coffee sorry". Like seriously? It would have been 5 minutes. Why not ask if I wanted to join?

If I hear one more "I can't, sorry" from anybody, I'm going to lose my shit. That's legit all I've been hearing for the past year now from ALL of my friends. Once it starts, it never stops.
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GeniUs · 56-60, M
You need to stop doing things for people they are taking you for granted, you might even want to remind them about the times they couldn't help you out.
TheMasterMan1 · 26-30, M
@Caramella How would you know that? I don't let people disrespect me ever. This is just a more recent and modern problem I'm facing. No disrespect to me has been involved, at least yet anyways. I never let people just walk away after disrespecting me in some form, I'd tell them what they did to hurt me in the very least. I don't really look at the problem as any form of disrespect, just a lack of communication/effort maybe.

@GeniUs I've actually decided to stop doing my cousin those favors, since I do alot for him but he can't make the same sorts of efforts for me. So I'm not saying I'm done with him completely, but I'm not doing half as much as I usually do to help him out.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
I see where you are coming from with that caramella and by stopping just helping people Masterman is on the right path to stopping it. That having been said we all (I do anyway) hope to move in a circle of people where we work for each other and not just what we can get and if there is anything in it for me.
I only said that one is responsible for their side of the interaction. Never mentioned anything about stopping or continuing.
Because you are responsible for your part of the interaction, always
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Ok not in the mood to discuss in detail tonight, just too tired.
It's your fault you let people treat you the way they do

 
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