I Am Irritated As Hell

You know, I don't mind chatting with someone or messaging. However, I do have a life. I have a family, I work, and I do other things with my time. So, there are going to be some days that I'm not online to chat with people. What I don't understand: Why do some of those people get mad at me? Why make me out to be the bad person? My world doesn't revolve around yours nor does your world revolves around mine. I barely know you. sigh. I think I'll just stop chatting with folks because this is becoming too much. I have my own qualms to deal with than adding yours to the mix.