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The only thing left to say about this topic though.

I read a story once relatively recently about a guy that swore the same things up and down finally got what he wanted and used the girl and then didnt really deliver a relationship about more than that basically just used her to get some other girl and honestly I think it's true n that it's easier to get a girlfriend if you have one but the thing is I am a very ethically concerned person who feels all is not quite fair in love and war and I mean it very sincerelyy I'm actually troubled by the fact that anyone would do it is why Im with the woman I'm with presently I basically had the balls required to go directly for my first pick without anyone backing me up.

she was always the one I had in mind about ending up with it's so perfect that I managed to get her to love me back I'm truly lucky and astonished that I achieved that much but we were always a poly tryst I don't mind I really don't.

so I do sometimes dream of other girls because I have her consent to do basically.

I'm not unhappy It's just that I have my freedom and it's like...
I'm basically trying to tell you the same thing I would anyone.

I am not really interested in purely hooking up with women I mean sex is amazing it feels good and It's always going to be tempting but it won't really ever scratch the itch if there's not more going on underneath the surface and all around us.

Basically it -has- to be deeper than that.

because I want that kind of connection.

I'm -aware- though. men -lie- men will say anything it takes anything you want to hear and you're probably afraid that I'm the same as the ones who said similiar things and then went back on their words- it happens only too often

I know by now most of you have heard it before we are a manipulative lot of creative geniuses I am a poet I have a way wth words at times.

but I wrote for self expression and am sort of afraid because I know you will use that language however you want to and honestly It was never fully about finding her,

self expression... mini poems....

But if someone like that is out there and isn't possessive you're welcome to find me.

I've had several short term flings in the past and while I enjoyed it while It lasted It left me empty.

I don't really tend to get involved without full intent to stick around and I hate men who lie to get women into bed

so basiclaly I can't do anything about those people- I am sorry though they abused your trust,
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Being used works both ways and not exclusive to men, though usually for different reasons.

I've replied about a girl I once took in. She wasn't the only one. Only the worst of the worse. Her reason was she had killed a biker and stole his car. Yet I didn't know that at the time.

Long story though. Just bring that up to prove being used is not one sided.

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