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I Just Want to Talk to Someone

There is a girl I have liked for a while, most of my resent past experiences are about her also, but I am reaching out again. I really need advice on how to handle this. She is one of my best friends and I was her first friend in high school. A little while ago I told her how I felt, and after that we didn't really talk for a while. But now we are talking more than ever and I can't help but feel that things have changed. At this point I am sure it is obvious how deep in the friend zone I am, but I feel there is hope, can someone people talk to me and help?

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omerush6

Hey dude. Look, we've all been there. It sucks I know.
But unfortunatly, the best thing you can do right now is just to be friends with her. And if you feel like you can't do that just be authentic and tell her that you see her as more than a just a friend so you want to get some distance for a while.

The thing is that you need to accept that she don't want you - end of story. And you don't need her as well. If she is not interested, you shouldn't beg.

I know this sounds harsh but it's the ONLY way. In fact, in my opinion, if you will keep chasing her it will only decrease your chances of ever being with her.

But look, don't just fake it nor play games with her. It's not the point. The point here is that you need to let go.

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