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I Am Sick Of People Who Complain But Won't Fix It

She's 26 and a people pleaser. I can give her all the advice in the world and she'd still complain because she can't ask simple questions, stand her ground, or say no to things she dislikes. I want to support her but I can't help her if she can't help herself.

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CC67219 · 41-45, F

Can lead a horse to water...
Sometimes best to leave them to their struggles. Like a caterpiller inside a caccoon.
A butterfly wont have the strength to fly if it cant find the strength to break out of the confines of a cacoon.

goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

@CC67219 That's right. I've had the feeling that she won't learn until she's had enough.

CC67219 · 41-45, F

@goagainsttheflow follow your instincts then... be there when she's past it.
Its great that you care so much

bijouxbroussard · F

That’s a tough one. Yes, at some point people have to stand up for themselves if they’re not happy. It’s in their hands.

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