Will power

@SW-User thanks. with restraint comes will power. Without restraint, mind goes berserk desiring and contradicting itself incessantly. Stamina hmm what you mean by stamina?

@midnightrose to believe that you will get what you want.

@Om2014 Sometimes we don't get what we want.
And sometimes will power wills the wrong thing.

Sometimes it fails completely.

We still have to work with that stuff. I believe n a conjunction of will and fate, and we have to deal with such contradictions with humor and grace

@Elevatorpitches i agree. Not all the wishes will materialize, ever. But to not contradict by doubting your will to succed, in other words "not willing the wrong thing" is what needs the effort. Yet fate secretly controls many strings.