I Do Not Get Why Sexual Women Are Judged

Ok, I agree with this one.
I have been sexual since a girl. Always kinda likes being seen nude.
My husband and I are open with our past and fantasies now. I love telling him my sexual thoughts.
But I also love telling other men my...deepest fantasies. Some admitily taboo, lol.
But sometimes when I do some say a wife and mom shouldn't do that.
Truth is, I can get aroused just sharing thoughts, and or hearing men tell me theirs.
...very aroused! Lol