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If your first ex wife is the mother of your son... then your girlfriend has to live with the fact that you are, and will continue to talk to her, whether she likes it or not. You have to keep things civil with her for the sake of the child that you share.
Your girlfriend needs to accept that your marriage to your first wife might be over - but she still has the right to whatever you both agreed on as far as contact with the child that you share goes.
As far as your second ex wife goes... I'm not sure that telling your girlfriend just how bad your first wife was with your second wife will make much of a difference - mostly because that's one of those things that you have to see to believe, and your girlfriend doesn't find seeing things from other people's angle the easiest thing to do at the best of times.
You'll know, deep down, when this relationship is over... though, I believe that, in your heart, you surpassed that point while your girlfriend was in hospital. You demonstrated that by the lengths you went to to get out of your relationship at that time. People don't usually go to those lengths for no reason.
Your girlfriend needs to accept that your marriage to your first wife might be over - but she still has the right to whatever you both agreed on as far as contact with the child that you share goes.
As far as your second ex wife goes... I'm not sure that telling your girlfriend just how bad your first wife was with your second wife will make much of a difference - mostly because that's one of those things that you have to see to believe, and your girlfriend doesn't find seeing things from other people's angle the easiest thing to do at the best of times.
You'll know, deep down, when this relationship is over... though, I believe that, in your heart, you surpassed that point while your girlfriend was in hospital. You demonstrated that by the lengths you went to to get out of your relationship at that time. People don't usually go to those lengths for no reason.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
The fight is caused as much by you being defensive as it is by her not liking the texts .
BTW How old is your son?
BTW How old is your son?
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@VirginMatchmaker Sounds like you are no longer in love with her
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@GJOFJ3 I do love her but we have so many arguments I wonder what is the point. When we're good we're great and when we're bad it's the worst. She expects me to live her way and do things her way but it can't be like that. She's way too harsh with her black and white ways and I'm not like that.
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@Miram I just want to know if the situation is ridiculous or not? Right now I don't want to be back with her but the world seems a pretty frightening place when you've got responsibilities on your own.