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I Love My Boyfriend and He Loves Me

He washed my front porch siding
He replaced my broken shower head
He cooked breakfast for us
He replaced. My daughters dead hermit crab
He welcomed my neighbor over for dinner
He helped wash dishes tonight and I didn’t even ask
He washed our love soaked bedsheets ( okay I asked him to do that)
He built a wooden ladder for the spare bunk beds
He built a wooden floor in the attic
He tied a Ninja Warrior rope between the trees
He’s kinda amazing ... deserves more love soaked sheets
Shhhhh
Our secret
My secret
He wants to share me
He thinks I’m so perfect
He’s so amazing to me
I’m afraid sonedays that something aweful will happen
To this amazing human being who is my friend.
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
There is that one thing tucked within those sweet lines that I’ll never understand. To me that’s not love.
Mindful · 56-60, F
Oh? I wonder what that is...@SimplyTracie
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Mindful “He wants to share me”
Mindful · 56-60, F
Ah... yes....I suppose that’s his only quirk, I chalk it up to genetics@SimplyTracie
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Mindful Do you like to be shared?
Mindful · 56-60, F
Hmmmm I like that it feels like I’m free to choose him because I love him and not ever treated like I’m “owned” @SimplyTracie
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Mindful I suppose you met that one person that allows you your happiness. That is awesome.
@Mindful What do you think he means by sharing you ? - sounds like he wants to pass you around like you are a----well I am not going to say it.....
Mindful · 56-60, F
That is exactly how I feel... and I feel spoiled at times... so I’m just espresso g my gratitude@SimplyTracie
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@MarmeeMarch That’s exactly what it sounds like. 😬
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@Mindful This has inspired a question. Would you mind if I posted it and give you credit?
@SimplyTracie I mean come on - everything else sounds nice - then it takes a nosedive and loses all meaning - too bad she is not seeing that. Oh well live and learn.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@MarmeeMarch Yeah, this takes the saying, [i]Sharing is caring [/i] to a new level.
@SimplyTracie no comment
Mindful · 56-60, F
I know exactly what he means... and more importantly I know exactly who I am... some people are much more complex than others and it does have to do with genetics and I’m not going to get into that conversation with you.but I encourage you to read about such topics if you’re really curious because even within this topic there is a bell curve of what it means. I allow to mean whatever I want it to mean or not mean. I have met men who want to possess me and enjoy being jealous. I think jealousy is a sickness of the mind on another level so I could go the other extreme on this topic. Obsession may feel safe to you but I do NOT prefer being obsessed over by anyone. @MarmeeMarch
@Mindful Yea - looking at your age range - you need to take what you can get. I am trying not to insult you but you keep defending this - it aint normal - it aint jealousy either.
@Mindful And its not even YOU its about that pathetic man you thing you have - my guess is that he wants to "share you" to bring up his low self image. I'll bet he brags about what you guys do to others - but hey if you are fine with it then OK
Mindful · 56-60, F
@MarmeeMarch I’ve thought of all these things my dear...
I’m curious about your age... I’m curious about your intelligence... I’m curious about how long your relationships last...I’m curious about your sex life but let me guess your answers will be— they are all perfectly normal. Stop trying to fit other people into your little square peg of an image of what all stepford moms should be. But if you find a stepford mom, by all means, I’ll be happy for you. Why are u trying to claim my happiness isn’t real? That somehow we aren’t happy? Because you find us disgusting? Why is that so important to you to tell me?
@Mindful I didnt say your happiness is not real - its just that you are an old lady and the smallest things make you happy - now when you meet a man that kisses your ass (which btw aint going to last long) you cling on to him like your life depended on it. Its your last go around with a man lady and you picked a dud. Cant you just enjoy your 99 cats and be happy.

My guess is that you just met, prob. from a dating site. Both of you are desperate but I think you are the most because you seem to be ok with the fact that he wants to pass you around like it's yesterday's newspaper. But I understand you are a product of the 70s and things like that don't bother you.