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Letting go

I am bit scared to take this step but I know this is the only way I can have better life. I been holding him for too long and I have never got anything in return. I was in love but never been loved. Tomorrow I want to break this all and move out from the flat. I think it’s time. I need to make this happen for myself . I should not be scared to be alone. I will be fine and time will be healer

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Budwick · 70-79, M

You have a plan, right?
Figuring it out as you leave is not a good idea.
Sounds like the right thing to do, but set yourself up for success!

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Budwick · 70-79, M

@Losinghope Afraid of him?
If so, call social services so they can have people there to help and protect.

If it's simply fear of the future - don't worry. You can do this. And as I said, there are services avail;able to help and support you.

Losinghope · 31-35, F

@Budwick no no not afraid of him afraid of letting go of something I had treasured for so long 😓😓😓😓

Budwick · 70-79, M

@Losinghope Understood.

Change is always scary. You're leaving a situation where you have not been appreciated, sounds like it's been a while. Give yourself some time to appreciate and learn to be alone - not lonely, but alone. The pandemic situation is perfect in that regard. Concentrate on 'nesting' in your new place. Make it just right for you! Then do things you like doing, reading, exercising [in fact do THAT even if you don't like it - maybe especially if your don;t like that - it's healthy and feeds your self esteem.] Have a hobby - dig into it! Don't have one? Find one. Focus on YOU! You are worth it - you really are!

Catzgano · 31-35, F

Do it.

Losinghope · 31-35, F

@Catzgano thank u

Catzgano · 31-35, F

@Losinghope hope it works out!!

Losinghope · 31-35, F

@Catzgano I know it’s not a easy decision and I have Always kept it on hold but I think I need to be stronger

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