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Lost1985 · 36-40, F
They have their days but overall no.. He hadnt seen or spoke to them sense Feb. 2012.. That was his choice, he chose not to reach out even tho we had some mutual friends he could have used to get ahold of us, or he couldnofbused social media to contact us, he also knew my mothwrs address and place of work.. So basically he had a number of ways to get in touch but never bothered to... Its kinda a long story but in short i went and got a PFA ob him back in 2012 after his last visit with them, he used that as an excuse as to why he never bothered to reach out, thankfully i kept my copy in case my kids ever questioned me ( their dad likes to twist stories so i always try to cover my bases) basically i clearly stated within the PFA that if they were tonhave any contact i only wanted it to be sone in a public place and if he were to call it was ONLY to be in regaurds to the kids.. He went and said that because of the PFA he couldnt see or speak to them lol the problem with that is that was 2012 the PFA Was only good for 2 years... We didnt move until June 2016.. He still hadnt tried to contact them by that point which was much longer than the 2years the PFA was in place ( which like i said wven with that it clearly stated he could have seen them in public places or called for them) ... 1 of my 3 kids follows him on social media and even there they dont talk.. He may like a pic she posts here and there but thats it, matter of fact her birthday JUST passed and he never even bothered to say Happy Biryhday until she posted about it that night smh.

Primnproper · 56-60, F
I did the same..my hometown holds nothing but bad memories for me..was the best decision I ever made.
Lost1985 · 36-40, F
Yesss, its been amazing hard lol but amazing and ao freeing.. Just driving across the stateline when we first left i just felt like the weight had been lifted off my shoulders like literally... Honestly aside from my two best friends the thing i miss most is the ocean lol
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Lost1985 totally understand..
fairone · F
Thats incredible, I wish you much happiness and success in your new start.. You deserve it!
ASouthernGentleman · 36-40, M
A fresh start, is needed sometimes, even though they are hard.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Don't your kids miss their dad?
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@juiceyangel333 Nobody misses an abusive father

 
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