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I Think Too Much and Care Too Much

All I ever want is to make everyone happy... But the bad thing about that, is I don't try and think of what I actually want. I care to much about other peoples feelings to the point where I forget about what's most important for me. Anyone have the same problem??

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rottenrobi · 56-60, F

Try to put yourself first. The sooner you get this, the better your life will be. It doesn't mean you're selfish, you can still care, but just not at your expense. I wasted way to much time worrying about others.

jderrick007 · 22-25, F

@rottenrobi: I try, it's just extremely hard when you're manipulated into thinking that you've done something wrong..

rottenrobi · 56-60, F

You're so right.
I know its not easy, I really do. Try not to buy into their bs. You're the only one who can stick up for you.

mic11225 · 26-30, M

Yeah I had that problem. For me it came from an absence of self worth. And eventually I concluded that looking out for myself first would be both the most reasonable and beneficial way for me to live

RevanUchiha · 22-25, M

Yeah...but I try to find the fine line between what makes me happy and what makes others happy

jderrick007 · 22-25, F

@RevanUchiha: how do you do that though?

RevanUchiha · 22-25, M

@jderrick007: I try...sometimes they say I'm too selfish, sometimes too selfless...

KISR93FM

Your post indicates to me, that you have a pure heart and care for people. Well said, young lady.

gdon39 · 41-45, M

I do and it is currently making a mess of my life

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