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I Ended a Friendship

I ended a 5 year friendship after she called me an evil person after making a joke about her brother. Its been three months since I talked t her now and I just accidentally logged into my other friends phone from that day we went over her house. She had texted my other friend saying that her mother can't stand the sight of me. it hurts since I met all of her family have even spent thanksgiving with them and she has meant mine. The only reason I made a joke about her brother was because her brother had threatened to beat me up and kept calling me cave women and she didn't stand up for me.
User41 · 36-40, M
You ended a friendship cause you called her brother evil??? Jokingly?

I’ve started friendships under more offending circumstances.

Your better off
User41 · 36-40, M
This chick sounds bat shit crazy.

Your seriously better off.

I’ll bet you anything in a few months to a year you’ll look back and realize that.
MakeChangeHappen · 26-30, F
@User41 I hope so, I just cried at the part where she said she hated our entire friendship. One of her friends I didn't know well was gonna come and get me a thing of canned foods since I had no food after that bc she kicked me out and I had to use all my money to stay in a bed bugged infested motel for the rest of the week until I could go back to my home. Her friend never showed up with any food for me bc she had told her not to and said that i could starve and that she wouldnt care
MakeChangeHappen · 26-30, F
@User41 I was just supposed to stay at her place for 5 days and she kicked me out after one day after the brother joke
HappytoTalk · 61-69, F
Seems to me her brother is a POS.. and his sister ,your ex friend is cut from the same cloth .. and the rubbish took its self out! That being said I know it would hurt you ..give it time and soon it won’t hurt and it will be just a memory..
you will meet many people who will be friends that will become ex friends .. true friends will stand by you..and stick up for you even to family if they are in the wrong.💕
You’re better off without them
english · 56-60, M
i can only make a call on what you say ,it all sounds very unfortunate,5 years way longer than the average marriage these days,who has the humbleness to take the higher ground , (do you think she knows where the higher ground is?) sure beneath her feet. how you doing buddy cheers for sharing
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
She wasn't a very good friend. Be glad you found out now rather than later
MakeChangeHappen · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 Yeah I just can't believe this time it's really over.
MakeChangeHappen · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 sometime I miss her but I know thats not the same person from years ago and she even said this has been a long time coming.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@MakeChangeHappen yes it sounds like she was looking for an excuse to make the friendship breakup be your fault
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
I've had to burn some bridges with family,

 
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