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I Do Not Believe Blood Makes Family

And they don't understand that I'd don't have any problem to break apart from them if they continue being selfish assholes.
We always had problems, cuz there are pathological relationships between us but I see a new wave of problems coming, problems that are already affecting us, and if they think I'm too kind -aka stupid- as usual and I'll pay for this again and again like I always did, this time I'd like to take the opportunity to break the family apart... Not that I'd gain something by this, but at least I won't suffer for new shit.

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Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F

I am sorry that you are in this situation but I understand as I have separated myself from family at times. Do what you need to do for your own sanity.

Bluesky52 · 61-69, M

@Sinnerwithaheart i have too,sinner,i think we talked about this,my family that's in Michigan,

Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F

@Bluesky52 Yes we did.

Bluesky52 · 61-69, M

@Sinnerwithaheart my sister is crazy,

SW-User

OH. I'm sorry you feel this way. The "kind aka stupid" part really broke my heart. It's true. In this fast paced world people do call kind people stupid. But really they are the ones that are. To confuse kindness with being stupid is the most small minded shallow shit in the world. It tells a lot about the majority than about the kind ones. I'm sorry you have to face the problems among your family but yes there is a breaking point and sometimes you have to decide when it is best to move away and build a safe wall. Families are built upon mutualism and if it's not there then you can't survive being the wall everyone can lean against as you will snap and break and they will not pick you up. They'll just find another wall to lean on. And that's a sad reality.
I hope you think with a cool mind before jumping to any decisions. If you have wife and/or children, make sure whatever decision you make is in their best interest as they are precious.

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