I Think Life Sucks

A friend of mine is going through a lot of troubles right now. She is self harming to feel better, going through financial problems and deadbeat boyfriend problems. I'm so heartbroken that I said to myself, at least all of my bills are paid and I have a place to live. I said this while crying. I dropped money off to her and she says "I'm going through a lot but at least it's nothing like what you're going through"... so now I'm confuzzled at life. I'm so heartbroken and crying my eyes out annnnnd...yea at least you're not going through what I'm going through....cool. ugh