My husband is my care giver but no longer my husband
He refuses to take me on vacation to the Caribbean because I'm fat. He refuses to hug me or be intimate with me because I'm fat. He makes bad jokes about me saying he wants to make money off me on the internet as a feeder chick. he refuses to take me grocery shopping because he only wants to shop the sales. He consults our kids and not me when choosing the color scheme to our renovations. He never ever consults me when making a big purchase like buying a car he has a camero. He is always treating me like garbage and everybody else like gold. He always demeaning towards me. He has cheated on me with my second cousin then got mad at me for always bringing it up cause It hurt and now I found another woman on his Facebook who I fear he will cheat on me with if he hasn't already. He has blocked me on Facebook and messenger! He is always grumpy towards me.
But on the flip side my whole family absolutely loves him! He's my uncle's best friend. He's a good dad to our 4 kids a good provider hard worker admirable man. He's brilliant sane and helpful to anyone who needs it. He is a social butterfly and has a lot of good friends. Hes a good cook. He knows what hes doing renovating our house. Hes a contractor in charge of all of the trades. Hes really good with money. he still tells me he loves me when hanging up the phone. He got me disability tax credits which was over $90 000 of back payment on our taxes. He takes care of everything, hes reliable and I live a pretty comfy lifestyle because of him. If I want smoke he will put the money into my account or anything for that matter.
So he's become more of a care giver than a husband I don't know if I should just accept my lot in life and settle or move on which is very scary because I can't work because I am being gang stalked and exploited by a demonic psychic who is destroying my reputation all over town and I spend all my time in bed with heart and lung disease and a pacemaker. Plus I have no friends of my own that I can turn to or lean on, hes it. What I think I should do is confront him about the sexy stranger on his Facebook friends list and get him to remove her then I could forgive him....if not there will be he'll to pay!
But on the flip side my whole family absolutely loves him! He's my uncle's best friend. He's a good dad to our 4 kids a good provider hard worker admirable man. He's brilliant sane and helpful to anyone who needs it. He is a social butterfly and has a lot of good friends. Hes a good cook. He knows what hes doing renovating our house. Hes a contractor in charge of all of the trades. Hes really good with money. he still tells me he loves me when hanging up the phone. He got me disability tax credits which was over $90 000 of back payment on our taxes. He takes care of everything, hes reliable and I live a pretty comfy lifestyle because of him. If I want smoke he will put the money into my account or anything for that matter.
So he's become more of a care giver than a husband I don't know if I should just accept my lot in life and settle or move on which is very scary because I can't work because I am being gang stalked and exploited by a demonic psychic who is destroying my reputation all over town and I spend all my time in bed with heart and lung disease and a pacemaker. Plus I have no friends of my own that I can turn to or lean on, hes it. What I think I should do is confront him about the sexy stranger on his Facebook friends list and get him to remove her then I could forgive him....if not there will be he'll to pay!
