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Why do some men persist in pressuring when a woman says she doesn't want to give him her number?

What is the mentality behind that?
SW-User
The belief that when a woman says no it means yes.
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@SW-User Argh. Where do they get that belief from???
SW-User
@WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome I have no idea but it's a belief held over generations.
Maybe it started with women being groomed a certain way to be coy and have men pursue as suitors.
SW-User
You can't possibly be rejecting him
@SW-User Ahhhhh I get it!
@Degbeme Too cute!!!
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
I know what you mean because I hear stories from my sisters. Men think that they need to have a "strong game" to get women. I've posted before about how I only ask for someone's number under certain circumstances and a bunch of men commented things like, "Come on, Man, that's weak game."

Not to sound like a neckbeard, but being a gentleman can go much further than "having a strong game" (AKA being way too pushy).
@SinlessOnslaught "strong game" sounds like it's something they play to win I guess.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome Right. It's a win or lose scenario.
SW-User
Some men are just conceited pricks that think every woman who sees him secretly wants him 🙄
nowic2 · 61-69, M
Selective deafness & they don't really care what she wants. It's all about getting what they want!
Northwest · M
They are conditioned by a society that expects/rewards this behavior.
Lilymoon · F
He doesn't take no for an answer. 🤦‍♀️
@Lilymoon Yeah I get that but why not?
Lilymoon · F
@WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome he's probably controlling. I'd run from that lol
I'll ask them next time.
Indy74 · 46-50, F
I think some guys are just brain dead.😁
Jungleman · M
they are probably desperate.
@Jungleman lol. Interesting viewpoint.
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Max13 🤢🤢🤢 wouldn’t touch you if you were the last man alive on earth.
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QueenandCrown · 41-45, F
Mentally deranged.
@EarthlingWise Makes sense.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Guess they think if they can get the upper hand on this, they can manipulate her for anything.
@Ambroseguy80 Wow. So deep! Good insight.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome that’s all I got! Otherwise, it’s just a very odd behavior
Budwick · 70-79, M
What is the mentality behind that?
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A desire to get in her pants, and a belief that she wants him to.
@Budwick But why would he believe the womans wants him if she says she doesn't want to give her number to him?
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I just wait untill she asks for mine, I am to shy to ask first. but Men will go to some crazy lengths to get a ladies number😂
They’re used to those handful of women who still think “playing hard to get” is a thing. 🙄
@bijouxbroussard Oh wow. People still do that?
Bang5luts · M
Maybe the man lost his own number and doesn't want to get in trouble for losing it..

 
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