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Why do some men persist in pressuring when a woman says she doesn't want to give him her number?

What is the mentality behind that?
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ravenhill · 41-45, MVIP
they are probably desperate.
[@1201332,ravenhill] lol. Interesting viewpoint.
Max13 · 26-30, M
If she is not giving then I may pressurise it ,
If she not wish to give it I may avoid hеr .
Iamonfire666 · 31-35, F
[@1211871,Max13] 🤢🤢🤢 wouldn’t touch you if you were the last man alive on earth.
Max13 · 26-30, M
[@10165,Iamonfire666] Humane not require mosquitos touching them , idiot .
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Lilymoon · F
He doesn't take no for an answer. 🤦‍♀️
[@1141547,Lilymoon] Yeah I get that but why not?
Lilymoon · F
[@1195753,WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome] he's probably controlling. I'd run from that lol
The belief that when a woman says no it means yes.
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[@44604,Aidolovemostofyourthoughts] Argh. Where do they get that belief from???
[@1195753,WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome] I have no idea but it's a belief held over generations.
Maybe it started with women being groomed a certain way to be coy and have men pursue as suitors.
QueenandCrown · 36-40, F
Mentally deranged.
[@484541,QueenandCrown] lol
Budwick · 70-79, M
[quote]What is the mentality behind that?[/quote]
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A desire to get in her pants, and a belief that she wants him to.
[@841775,Budwick] But why would he believe the womans wants him if she says she doesn't want to give her number to him?
[@18983,EarthlingWise] Makes sense.
Saraah · 26-30, F
I'll ask them next time.
[@548406,Saraah] Let me know!
Saraah · 26-30, F
[@1195753,WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome] I will!
Degbeme · 61-69, M
[@72117,Degbeme] Too cute!!!
nowic2 · 56-60, M
Selective deafness & they don't really care what she wants. It's all about getting what they want!
Justmerae · 51-55, F
You can't possibly be rejecting him
[@2144,Justmerae] Ahhhhh I get it!
mrsindyjoe · 46-50, F
I think some guys are just brain dead.😁
TheSunisout · 56-60, M
I just wait untill she asks for mine, I am to shy to ask first. but Men will go to some crazy lengths to get a ladies number😂
I know what you mean because I hear stories from my sisters. Men think that they need to have a "strong game" to get women. I've posted before about how I only ask for someone's number under certain circumstances and a bunch of men commented things like, "Come on, Man, that's weak game."

Not to sound like a neckbeard, but being a gentleman can go much further than "having a strong game" (AKA being way too pushy).
[@998562,SinlessOnslaught] "strong game" sounds like it's something they play to win I guess.
[@1195753,WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome] Right. It's a win or lose scenario.
Northwest · M
They are conditioned by a society that expects/rewards this behavior.
They’re used to those handful of women who still think “playing hard to get” is a thing. 🙄
[@328496,bijouxbroussard] Oh wow. People still do that?
Some men are just conceited pricks that think every woman who sees him secretly wants him 🙄
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Guess they think if they can get the upper hand on this, they can manipulate her for anything.
[@403045,Ambroseguy80] Wow. So deep! Good insight.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
[@1195753,WeeWeeWeeAllTheWayHome] that’s all I got! Otherwise, it’s just a very odd behavior
Bang5luts · 46-50, M
Maybe the man lost his own number and doesn't want to get in trouble for losing it..

 
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