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I Saw It Coming But It Hurts Anyway

Been in a beautiful long distance relationship for more than a year but now suddenly it has ended. Been more than two weeks but pain doesn't go. Feel choked whenever I think of her and that's pretty much all the time. Think I won't last long this way.

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Jimjam · 56-60, M

She's separated but I'm married and she didn't want to mess my married life

Vivaci

@Jimjam OH! I'm sorry. I hope you both stay in touch as friends at least.... Although it's easier said than done!

Jimjam · 56-60, M

Thanks. Yeah it's not easy to be just friends after that beautiful beautiful relationship.

Vivaci

@Jimjam Life sucks! 🙄

Jimjam · 56-60, M

@Vivaci so true. Sometimes wonder if we could break through the shackles of society norms. It really sucks

Vivaci

@Jimjam OH yeah! You spoke my mind there... And it's tougher for people with a conscience and those who want to be good spouses and parents!

Jimjam · 56-60, M

@Vivaci yes. That's what is stopping me. Thank you for your kind response

Vivaci

@Jimjam I pray you find the courage to carry on with your commitment and the opportunity to meet her again.

Jimjam · 56-60, M

@Vivaci Thank you so much. I really don't know what to do. Just can't believe it's ending. Just can't get her out of my mind.

Vivaci

@Jimjam Take it one day at a time. Maybe she'll wait for you... Who knows.

Jimjam · 56-60, M

@Vivaci yes that's what I'm doing but can't decide whether to message her or just let her be in peace. I know my messages will be emotional and will make her suffer too

Vivaci

@Jimjam Still its bittersweet. Better than having no msg.

Jimjam · 56-60, M

@Vivaci Think you made my decision. I will message her but only on weekend. Don't want to disrupt her work. Thank you so much Vivaci

Vivaci

@Jimjam My pleasure! I know that a woman will usually not voice her thoughts... But I also know that she'll be more hurt that you didn't even message... It might prove to her that you've moved on. Which is not the case. Lol