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Falling in love with the wrong person

Falling in love with the wrong person can really ruin you life...

These days, dating is a new world. It's all online sites, endless 'talking stages', multiple sexual partners, mixed signals and strategic mind games. What I do not understand is how people take even longer to get over a person who was SO WRONG for them. Sure, it hurts, it ACHES your heart when you thought he was 'the one' but he wasn't. You thought he was someone and ended up being the complete opposite, I GET IT! We have alllll been there. Being an idiot in the dating world and getting your heartbroken is just a fact of life and it's all apart of growing up.

What's important is that you RECOGNISE your errors... because ending up with the wrong person can truly ruin you and your life. I stayed in the wrong relationships for stupid reasons and wasted my tears for the wrong boys for far tooooo long. As humans, it's natural for us to excuse poor behaviour and turn a blind eye to red flags because we need to fill a void in our lives.
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MushroomFaerie · 31-35, F
You need to learn to fill your own void before you go looking for love. You'll definately attract the wrong people and not see the red flags if your looking for another person to complete your life
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Because while everyone wants stability no one really wants change.

It's the acceptance factor of change that so few really want. So they hide behind social values that change oh so slowly.

It's a huge problem. 😔

Change is in and around everything though. Accept it and things will change. Don't and they for certain will not.

Most tend to stay with what they are comfortable with.... No change. Then complain about .

Yet everything about today's society would be totally blasphemous 200 years ago.

They did believe in witches after all in a negative way.

 
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