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Authenticity vs fandom 🧡..........

ExtremeNext · 31-35
You and degs inspire me, did you know he is my EX sw husband
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Degbeme I always thought she was a loser anyhow 🙄

Who the heck is this Cherrynow chick?😅 I haven't been on that much lately, is she new?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@MoonlightLullaby Cherrynow was on EP ages ago. Long since gone never made it here.
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Degbeme Gotcha. I only lasted on EP for maybe a year. Guess I missed her like many here.
Ksmile14 · F
@MoonlightLullaby Some people want all kinds of drama in their lives cuz that's how they get attention and validity as you say. and after awhile they're good at it. That's what they're known for...being good at causing and stirring up drama. It's they're best accomplishment. :\
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Ksmile14 That's one reason I leave this place so often. I always return because of friends, but drama makes for an unhealthy environment & social media creates the perfect home. I'm glad I know the difference though.💝
Ksmile14 · F
@MoonlightLullaby Knowing the difference allows you to unlock the cage and fly away when you need to. 🕊️
NewKidInTown · 51-55, M
It makes me wonder what someone sees in me, what caught their attention enough to want to be in my circle. Sometimes it becomes clearer after awhile of getting to know each other. Other times it never does, and then they just drift away, leaving me wondering why...
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@NewKidInTown I knew you possessed character in the first post I read of yours, by that one statement. I'm grateful, because you're genuine & your mind swims in the same intricate depths as mine. You have a caring soul and I couldn't imagine disappearing or turning my back on you like those other shallow people. Don't be so hard on yourself. My heart is just as delicate and complex, so I wonder about every damn thing too..💎😘🤗
NewKidInTown · 51-55, M
@MoonlightLullaby I prefer those who are self-reflective, conscious of not only themselves but of how they are in relation to others, than those who can’t see beyond the tip of their nose. You are always wondering, asking why. Imho, that is not a fault but a quality to be appreciated and treasured 😘🤗
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@NewKidInTown [quote]You are always wondering, asking why.[/quote]

Only you & one other appreciate that, when others deem it and my infinite paragraphs as faults. Oh how I've struggled with that here, so I'm truly honored & blessed.🌟
nowic2 · 61-69, M
That's not an issue for me I have no-one in my circle & about 12 followers. the followers mainly because they have sent a friend request without having any contact. So they won't make it to the friends list.
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@nowic2 With this new account, I only chose my real friends and have added a couple renewals. Being here, has taught me the value of a rare commodity; true friends that want me for me, as I with them. I'm sure you must have at least a handful to call friend. I have two handfuls myself.

I get those followings too, but they never interact. I don't understand it when they never interact.🤔
Dayvee65 · M
So True! A couple of years after joining this site, I chose to reverse the ripple effect and be content with ever decreasing circles. I do find inspiration from the very few ripples that remain in my otherwise still pond. 🙂
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Dayvee65 I've decreased mine dramatically. I'm not here for popularity and part of that, is disrespect. I haven't the need to tolerate it for a number. Just like one in this very thread who had a laugh at politics and sent a rude pm regarding beliefs, with insults. So so lame, considering I'm not even posting about it ... [b]ever[/b], nor have we spoke about it.😑

I stick to my pals like yourself, although one left us.🥺
Degbeme · 70-79, M
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Degbeme You're far from a cage bird, silly boy. Your circle ❤'s you.🤗🌟
ExtremeNext · 31-35
@Degbeme lol
Degbeme · 70-79, M
antonioio · 70-79, M
Aw my friend
You seem to be doing a lot of soul searching lately 😔
I've always looked for inspiration from within my self
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@antonioio I do a lot of it actually, if not, I can't deal & somewhat lose myself. Don't frown though, there's nothing wrong with finding inspiration within, as I do the same most of the time. To me, this was more about quality vs quantity...having friends support and cheer you on. I remove anyone who's negative out.😉🤗❤
antonioio · 70-79, M
@MoonlightLullaby I'm glad to hear that 🤗🌹💕
SW-User
Interesting! I reckon most just want to be flattered and catered to. That ain't friendship.
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
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So true and I haven't the use for such people. I especially don't have the need to be liked by everyone; that's a clear sign of one thriving on pretense and insecurity. Plus, I just want real people who make me feel good.😊
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@SW-User You were one of em! And I never put on a show for attention like Lilz.Irony.🖕
Laughoften · M
Oh my gosh, I LOVE this !!!!!!!!!
Laughoften · M
@MoonlightLullaby agree, be the friend you desire to have
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Laughoften
I hereby call you awesome!😉🧚‍♀️
So glad you stopped by!
Laughoften · M
@MoonlightLullaby you're welcome 😍
Wayne91 · 31-35, M
Some people don’t just inspire me they are just mmmmm 😈
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Wayne91 All the milf's with your cookies..😏🤭

..🍪..nom, nom, nom.😉😇
Wayne91 · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby Exactamente 😋😋😋
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Wayne91 Yep. I know you a little too well, kiddo.😉😊

🍪🥛😏
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Oh!

But you have a good circle! 😏
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@MoonlightLullaby me?? 😲

I am innocent!😇
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Shutterbug I don't think she believes you.🤭[image deleted]
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@MoonlightLullaby happy for her to interrogate me! 😜
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
A lot of truth to that.
I have upbeat and inspiring friends
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@JoePourMan Yes, I only chose those few on my new account. I don't need to love or be loved by [i]everyone[/i]....just real people 💯
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
@MoonlightLullaby We have similar views on life 🤗
So true..and it takes work to be inspired..
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Experienced33 Indeed. I search for the gems. The one's in the rough are usually the best source, imo.💎✨😉
Niloo · 46-50, F
True!
I think I like my circle even more now 😌
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Niloo Great for you. I'm glad to have you back.❤
Immenselydist · 31-35, M
Wow 😳 it was nice
Immenselydist · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby still figuring out
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Immenselydist I hope you figure it out soon.💙
Immenselydist · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby yep hope so too
revenant · F
That goes for real life too. Very true
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@revenant Most definitely. There's a saying that if you must be liked by everyone, you have a problem. I prefer comfort vs the chaos of keeping people that are so often full of pretense.
@MoonlightLullaby exactly 🤗
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@BettyBeez 🤗❤ God, I loathe that hug emoji ****eeeek*****
@MoonlightLullaby lmfaooooo they’re all so creepy
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Thats so great!!
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Quimliqer I would rather validate my worth by the quality of friendship.😌
lancetroy · 31-35, M
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@lancetroy Awesome 👌

 
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