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I Am In a Relationship But I Don't Feel Loved

My bf would like me to take a small loan on my name and give him half of the money when I get it. We would both pay half the monthly installments.
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Miram · 31-35, F

Why ? What does he want to do with the loan?

Have him sign a loan agreement to repay the money, if it is for necessary purposes.

If he refuses to sign, don't do it.

AnarchoMetalchic · 36-40

@Darkcosmos: The only problem with that is, even if signed he won't repay it if he doesn't have the money. He wouldn't face jail time or anything.

Miram · 31-35, F

@AnarchoMetalchic:he will still have to pay when he has the money. He can face jail if there is proof of him wasting money elsewhere instead of paying his debt.

But after I checked her profile, I changed my mind. She is in an unhealthy abusive relationship. Giving him a loan is a big NO.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Darkcosmos: he agree to sign it...however signing it kinda question my trust in him. He won't get a loan.

Miram · 31-35, F

@destinyfabulous: you shouldn't give me. You should be planning to leave him. From the look of it, it's horrible relationship.