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I Need You to Tell Me What to Do

One of the most frustrating things there is is when somebody starts asking me why did you do this or why didn't you do that. It makes me feel all worried and insecure. If somebody expects me to do something I wish they would come out and say so. That way I don't have to worry they are going to be all disappointed with me.

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justbob · 61-69, M

Living up to other people's expectations is not the only thing that matters. As long as you have not done anything wrong you should not worry about it so much.

aprilmay · 22-25, F

@justbob Sometimes they make me feel stupid though like I should have known what to do and I didn't 🥺

justbob · 61-69, M

@aprilmay Then they are being thoughtless and it isn't your fault.

aprilmay · 22-25, F

@justbob Sweet of you to say it

aprilmay · 22-25, F

@justbob The thing is that I just want to do what I should and what people expect of me. If people would just tell me

justbob · 61-69, M

@aprilmay You have a submissive soul. Nothing wrong with that, but take people as individuals

aprilmay · 22-25, F

@justbob I don't think I understand what that means

justbob · 61-69, M

@aprilmay You do not have to please everybody. Think most about the people who care about you the most.