I Need You to Tell Me What to Do
do I talk to my crush and do something about my feelings and find out for sure or keep it to myself?
22-25, M
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Humanist321
There is a middle way. Talk to him, build a friendship, and when the friendship is secure enough then tell him that you have feelings for him. Build up to it slowly. Then if he is not gay, or not interested in you sexually, then he may let you down slowly rather than make a public fuss. Just remember, once it is out you may not be able to get the toothpaste back into the tube.
Dathglas · 22-25, M
there is already so.eqhat of a relshonship there. sorta, like a past relashonship. he knows me well and I know him well and we both know that though it's sort of a past thing but I think in a situation where he or I was in like "danger" or trouble or sorts,the last we could have each others backs. and I know when I do this I k ow how to he careful consealing it.it's not that I have done this before but I know how ty o keep things hidden and it to spread very well, in terms of gow I talk to people and how I manage to pull this off.
ksbobmst
You need to weigh out what you want from this because it sounds like there's risks in this. But sooner or later you're going to have to tell a crush how you feel.
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ksbobmst
Who could not like you?
Dathglas · 22-25, M
oh like I mean in a sexula sorta waym he likes me as a person perfectly fine. at least I think. we have quite the history together really, and a very interesting one at that. not Luke bad interesting at app, nuts still interesting
ksbobmst
So you've had a thing for him for quite some time. That's nice that he means that much to you.Maybe if you explained it that way. Wanting to get closer to him. Crushes are hard to gauge.
Azuriela
What exactly has kept you from telling him how you feel? Fear that if he doesn't want to date it will ruin your friendship?
Dathglas · 22-25, M
no, that we already have such an I teresti g relashonship that it would burn the bridges and he would feel to weird and just never talk to me or want to be around me again
Dathglas · 22-25, M
and that's why when I tell him when ever that will be I'm gonna be very very careful and particular about how I'm gonna go about telling him
Azuriela
I send you wishes for knowing the right thing to say :)
Gayprince1234
Talk to him. You can do it. And if he says no then he is missing out. You got this dude!!!!
Humanist321
Are you out? Have you ever had to try to determine whether someone you like is gay, or receptive to you, or will be upset and punch you? It's not as easy as you make it sound. It's not about being brave, it's about being careful.
Dathglas · 22-25, M
hey I'm, yeah I have been trying to figure that put for a very long time now and have considered Ike every possible outcome and all of the different ways I could approach him
Humanist321
OK but the paragraph above was directed to Gayprince1234. He had said, talk to him. I was letting him know it's not that easy. There are issues that we have already talked about. You know all that, but I wanted Gayprince to know it is just not about deciding to do it, it is how and when.